How to Chat With Cam Models: Do’s and Don’ts

Illustration for "How to Chat With Cam Models: Do’s and Don’ts" on AllBestCams. Good chat gets you noticed and makes shows better. Here is how to talk to cam models in public and private chat, with simple do’s and don’ts.

Performers read hundreds of messages a night. The viewers they remember are polite, clear and fun to talk to. Here is how to be one of them.

In public chat

Say hello and react to what is happening.
Read the topic line and menu before asking for anything.
Tip when you make a request; it shows you are serious.
Keep messages short.

Don’ts

Do not demand free shows or private time.
Do not ask for personal details, real names or social media.
Do not argue with limits or moderators.
Do not spam the same message.

In private chat

Private messages are a good place for questions about a private show. Ask about the rate and what is on the menu, then decide. Once the show starts, say what you would like early.

Ideas for what to say

Stuck for words? See what to say in cam chat for easy openers. For requests, read how to make cam show requests.

And remember the house rules: tipping etiquette.